🎯 Therapy for High-Achievers: When Success Isn’t Enough
By: Dr. Jenn Merthe-Grayson, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
From the outside, you’re doing everything right. The degrees. The promotions. The wins. The image of success. People see your accomplishments and assume confidence, clarity, and control.
But inside, it may feel very different.
If you're a high-achiever—whether you're an athlete, executive, entrepreneur, or top-performing professional—you might carry a secret weight: pressure to constantly perform, fear of failure, or a lingering sense that you're not enough, no matter how much you achieve.
You’re not alone—and you don’t have to keep white-knuckling your way through it.
💡 When Achievement Becomes a Burden
Achievement can be deeply fulfilling. But when your self-worth becomes tied to performance, success can quietly fuel stress, anxiety, and disconnection. Common signs that something deeper may be going on:
You hit a goal… and immediately move the bar higher
You fear slowing down or “falling behind”
You feel guilty resting or doing something “unproductive”
You experience imposter syndrome, despite external validation
You struggle to answer the question: “Who am I without my accomplishments?”
You might be functioning—but not flourishing.
🧠 What Therapy Offers High-Achievers
Individual therapy provides a space where you don’t have to have it all together. It's not about fixing what’s broken—it's about deepening self-awareness, realigning your inner compass, and redefining success on your terms.
Here’s what we can work on together:
1. Imposter Syndrome
Therapy can help you untangle the belief that you're a fraud or fluke—no matter how much you’ve earned your place.
2. Burnout & Perfectionism
We’ll explore where perfectionism took root and how to set healthier standards for yourself—without losing your drive.
3. Identity Beyond Achievement
Who are you outside of your role, title, or stats? Therapy is a space to rediscover parts of yourself that don’t rely on external success.
4. Emotional Flexibility
Even high-performers need to grieve, rest, and feel. Therapy helps you make space for the full range of your humanity.
🏆 High Performance Doesn’t Require High Pressure
Whether you’re training for the next big game, managing a company, or navigating elite academics, you deserve the same support you offer to others. Therapy can be a tool not just for coping, but for thriving—on your terms, not the world’s.
Ready to Redefine What Success Means for You?
I work with athletes, professionals, and high-achievers who are ready to move beyond burnout and reconnect with who they are—not just what they do.
Let’s work together to create space for growth, healing, and more sustainable success.
Feeling Anxious About Politics? How Individual Therapy Can Help
By: Dr. Jenn Merthe-Grayson, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
In today’s polarized political climate, it’s not unusual to feel overwhelmed, exhausted, or even fearful when scrolling through headlines or talking with loved ones. With election cycles growing longer and more intense—and with social media amplifying every twist and turn—political anxiety is on the rise.
If you find yourself feeling stressed, irritable, helpless, or emotionally drained by the state of politics, you’re not alone. And you’re not overreacting. These are valid emotional responses to a very real and often chaotic landscape.
So, what can you do when the noise feels like too much?
💡 Why Is Politics Triggering So Much Anxiety?
Political news touches on issues close to our identity, values, safety, and sense of control. Topics like healthcare, civil rights, the economy, and climate change can impact our lives directly. When these issues are framed as high-stakes—and when polarization makes discussion feel unsafe—it’s no wonder our nervous systems react.
You might notice:
Difficulty sleeping after watching the news
Avoiding conversations with friends or family
Doomscrolling social media despite feeling worse
Heightened irritability or hopelessness
A constant sense of tension or dread
This kind of chronic stress can take a toll on your mental and physical health over time.
🧠 How Individual Therapy Can Help
Therapy offers a grounded, nonjudgmental space to unpack the anxiety that political tension stirs up. Whether you're feeling helpless, angry, confused, or all of the above, individual therapy can help you:
1. Regulate Emotional Responses
You’ll learn tools to calm your nervous system, manage intrusive thoughts, and reduce reactivity—so you can engage without feeling hijacked.
2. Understand Your Triggers
Therapy can help you explore the deeper reasons political issues feel so personal—whether due to past trauma, identity-based stress, or unresolved family dynamics.
3. Strengthen Boundaries
We’ll work together to set healthy limits around media consumption, social media engagement, and conversations that feel more activating than productive.
4. Rebuild a Sense of Agency
When anxiety stems from feeling powerless, therapy can help reconnect you with your values, community, and small ways to act meaningfully—without burning out.
🌿 You’re Allowed to Care Without Carrying It All
Caring deeply about your community and the world is a strength—not a weakness. But no one can carry it all alone. If the political climate is weighing on your mental health, you deserve support.
Individual therapy provides a space to process, recharge, and find your center—so you can move forward with clarity, resilience, and intention.
Ready to Talk?
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, let’s work together. I’m currently accepting new clients for individual therapy. Reach out today to schedule a consultation and take the first step toward more peace—even in uncertain times.
The Power of Co-Regulation: Creating a Safe Couple Bubble 🤝❤️
By: Dr. Jenn Merthe-Grayson, Licensed Psychologist
In a fast-paced world filled with distractions, stress, and emotional noise, couples often forget one simple truth: we regulate better together.
Humans are wired for connection. Our nervous systems actually sync up when we’re emotionally attuned to someone we trust. This is the beauty of co-regulation—the ability to calm, ground, and center ourselves through a safe and connected relationship.
And one of the most powerful ways couples can co-regulate is through intentional face-to-face connection.
👁️ Why Face-to-Face Matters
We pick up thousands of subtle emotional cues through eye contact, facial expression, and tone of voice. When couples talk while multitasking, staring at screens, or walking away from one another during conflict, those cues get lost—and so does the sense of emotional safety.
🌿 Intentional face time (literally) signals:
“I’m here.”
“I’m listening.”
“You matter.”
💬 Create Time for Regulating Conversations
This doesn’t mean every conversation needs to be deep or dramatic. It means taking small moments—like sitting down on the couch, turning to face each other, and being emotionally available.
Try this simple framework:
“How are you feeling right now?”
“What do you need from me today?”
“Can we sit for five minutes and just check in?”
The goal isn’t to fix each other—it’s to feel with each other.
🛡️ Building a “Couple Bubble”
A term coined by Stan Tatkin, the couple bubble is a protective zone you create around your relationship. It’s a mutual agreement to prioritize each other’s emotional well-being, to be the safe harbor in each other’s storms.
Creating a couple bubble means:
Being available emotionally and physically
Repairing quickly after conflict
Turning toward rather than away
Checking in before checking out
In a healthy couple bubble, both partners know:
👉 “I’ve got you. You’ve got me. We’re in this together.”
Co-regulation isn’t just a therapy buzzword—it’s a daily practice of showing up for one another.
By slowing down, turning toward each other, and creating shared safety, couples don’t just survive stress—they become stronger because of it.
💡 Want to deepen your connection and learn how to build your couple bubble? Couples therapy can help you develop these tools and create lasting change.