Feeling Anxious About Politics? How Individual Therapy Can Help
By: Dr. Jenn Merthe-Grayson, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
In today’s polarized political climate, it’s not unusual to feel overwhelmed, exhausted, or even fearful when scrolling through headlines or talking with loved ones. With election cycles growing longer and more intense—and with social media amplifying every twist and turn—political anxiety is on the rise.
If you find yourself feeling stressed, irritable, helpless, or emotionally drained by the state of politics, you’re not alone. And you’re not overreacting. These are valid emotional responses to a very real and often chaotic landscape.
So, what can you do when the noise feels like too much?
💡 Why Is Politics Triggering So Much Anxiety?
Political news touches on issues close to our identity, values, safety, and sense of control. Topics like healthcare, civil rights, the economy, and climate change can impact our lives directly. When these issues are framed as high-stakes—and when polarization makes discussion feel unsafe—it’s no wonder our nervous systems react.
You might notice:
Difficulty sleeping after watching the news
Avoiding conversations with friends or family
Doomscrolling social media despite feeling worse
Heightened irritability or hopelessness
A constant sense of tension or dread
This kind of chronic stress can take a toll on your mental and physical health over time.
🧠 How Individual Therapy Can Help
Therapy offers a grounded, nonjudgmental space to unpack the anxiety that political tension stirs up. Whether you're feeling helpless, angry, confused, or all of the above, individual therapy can help you:
1. Regulate Emotional Responses
You’ll learn tools to calm your nervous system, manage intrusive thoughts, and reduce reactivity—so you can engage without feeling hijacked.
2. Understand Your Triggers
Therapy can help you explore the deeper reasons political issues feel so personal—whether due to past trauma, identity-based stress, or unresolved family dynamics.
3. Strengthen Boundaries
We’ll work together to set healthy limits around media consumption, social media engagement, and conversations that feel more activating than productive.
4. Rebuild a Sense of Agency
When anxiety stems from feeling powerless, therapy can help reconnect you with your values, community, and small ways to act meaningfully—without burning out.
🌿 You’re Allowed to Care Without Carrying It All
Caring deeply about your community and the world is a strength—not a weakness. But no one can carry it all alone. If the political climate is weighing on your mental health, you deserve support.
Individual therapy provides a space to process, recharge, and find your center—so you can move forward with clarity, resilience, and intention.
Ready to Talk?
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, let’s work together. I’m currently accepting new clients for individual therapy. Reach out today to schedule a consultation and take the first step toward more peace—even in uncertain times.
The Power of Co-Regulation: Creating a Safe Couple Bubble 🤝❤️
By: Dr. Jenn Merthe-Grayson, Licensed Psychologist
In a fast-paced world filled with distractions, stress, and emotional noise, couples often forget one simple truth: we regulate better together.
Humans are wired for connection. Our nervous systems actually sync up when we’re emotionally attuned to someone we trust. This is the beauty of co-regulation—the ability to calm, ground, and center ourselves through a safe and connected relationship.
And one of the most powerful ways couples can co-regulate is through intentional face-to-face connection.
👁️ Why Face-to-Face Matters
We pick up thousands of subtle emotional cues through eye contact, facial expression, and tone of voice. When couples talk while multitasking, staring at screens, or walking away from one another during conflict, those cues get lost—and so does the sense of emotional safety.
🌿 Intentional face time (literally) signals:
“I’m here.”
“I’m listening.”
“You matter.”
💬 Create Time for Regulating Conversations
This doesn’t mean every conversation needs to be deep or dramatic. It means taking small moments—like sitting down on the couch, turning to face each other, and being emotionally available.
Try this simple framework:
“How are you feeling right now?”
“What do you need from me today?”
“Can we sit for five minutes and just check in?”
The goal isn’t to fix each other—it’s to feel with each other.
🛡️ Building a “Couple Bubble”
A term coined by Stan Tatkin, the couple bubble is a protective zone you create around your relationship. It’s a mutual agreement to prioritize each other’s emotional well-being, to be the safe harbor in each other’s storms.
Creating a couple bubble means:
Being available emotionally and physically
Repairing quickly after conflict
Turning toward rather than away
Checking in before checking out
In a healthy couple bubble, both partners know:
👉 “I’ve got you. You’ve got me. We’re in this together.”
Co-regulation isn’t just a therapy buzzword—it’s a daily practice of showing up for one another.
By slowing down, turning toward each other, and creating shared safety, couples don’t just survive stress—they become stronger because of it.
💡 Want to deepen your connection and learn how to build your couple bubble? Couples therapy can help you develop these tools and create lasting change.
Stop Tripping Over the Baggage: How Couples Can Unpack Together 🧳❤️
By: Dr. Jennifer Merthe-Grayson, Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Every relationship starts with baggage.
No matter how perfect your partner seems, we all carry experiences, wounds, fears, and beliefs from our past. Childhood dynamics, past relationships, betrayals, insecurities—these don’t just disappear when we fall in love. They come with us. Like a pile of overstuffed suitcases, they sit between us, waiting to be tripped over.
🔁 And when we don’t take the time to unpack that baggage together, guess what? We keep bumping into it. Arguments escalate quickly. Vulnerabilities get misinterpreted. We react to our partner through the lens of an old story that may not even belong to them.
So what does it look like to unpack together?
1. Name What You're Carrying
Start by identifying what you’ve brought with you. Maybe it’s a fear of abandonment, a belief that conflict is dangerous, or a tendency to shut down when things get hard. These patterns likely made sense in your past—but may not be serving your relationship now.
👥 Try this: “Sometimes when we argue, I notice I get really anxious. That reminds me of how I felt growing up when I didn’t feel heard.”
2. Create a Safe Space for Sharing
Unpacking only works when both people feel emotionally safe. That means listening without defensiveness, asking questions with curiosity, and holding space for each other’s pasts—even when it’s hard to hear.
🧠 Therapy tip: Use soft start-ups and “I” statements to avoid blame. Instead of “You always shut down,” try “I feel disconnected when we stop talking after a disagreement.”
3. Recognize When You’re Reacting to Old Baggage
We all get triggered. The trick is noticing when your reaction is bigger than the moment calls for. That usually means you're responding to old pain, not your partner.
⛔ Example: Feeling panicked when your partner doesn’t text back right away might be about more than just a missed message—it might be touching an old wound of feeling unimportant.
4. Build New Narratives Together
As you unpack, you make room to repack—this time with shared understanding, rituals of connection, and new ways of relating. Instead of letting the past run the show, you co-author a new story together.
💬 “We’re both learning how to feel safe and seen. Let’s keep reminding each other that we’re on the same team.”
Relationships don’t work because we avoid the baggage.
They work when we turn toward it, together.
The goal isn’t to get rid of it all—but to stop tripping over it in the dark.
✨ If you and your partner are ready to unpack with the help of a guide, couples therapy can offer the tools and structure you need to move forward with compassion and clarity.